You Can(not) Make Yourself Happy

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Br. Patrick Bubel
Crushed into near despair by a particularly nasty cold, a man reaches blindly into his pocket searching for relief. He grasps a cough drop—the sole salve for his burning throat—and unwraps it. Something catches his eye. He finds printed on the wrapper lines such as “Impress yourself,” “Bet on yourself,” and “Elicit a few ‘wows’ today.” His cough drop wrapper is giving him a pep talk. His happiness at these well-wishes, however, is fleeting. Try as he may to be positive, his cold oppresses him, his throat aches him, and his sorrow remains in him.
Inspirational quotes encourage us to make ourselves happy. They are in the same family as self-help books, which encourage us to overcome difficulties. Both are extremely popular, which is no surprise in a nation experiencing a mental health crisis. It is admirable to remain positive in the face of difficulties, and self-help books as well as inspirational quotes attempt to do just that.
Yet after reading them, more often than not we’re right where we left off. We can try all we want to be happy, but it is not as simple as it seems. If we could be happy, we would.
If we want advice on happiness, we should turn to the happiest people alive—the saints. Today we celebrate the feast of Saint Thomas Aquinas. Although the Common Doctor of the Church is not known for his self-help books, he possesses a deep knowledge of the human heart. Writing centuries ago, Aquinas recognized a sobering, perennial truth:
Happiness is something belonging to the soul; but that which constitutes happiness is something outside the soul. (ST I-II q. 2 a. 7)
This one sentence completely captures the tension we all experience in life. We can be happy, yet our happiness always remains just outside our precise control.  » Read More
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Voluntary Customer Surveys

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Special Cases

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Depending on the visitor’s activity, in our commercial web site or online service, the following “personally identifiable information” may be collected, in addition to information set forth in other sections of this document.

The term “personally identifiable information” means individually identifiable information about an individual consumer collected online by our company from an individual and maintained by our company in an accessible form, and may include any of the following:

  1. A first and last name.
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Types Of Information We Collect

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Context
Types of Data
Primary Purpose for Collection and Use of Data
Account Registration
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Client Information
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We have an interest in contacting our clients and communicating with them concerning normal business administration such as projects, services, and billing.
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Demographic Information
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Mailing List
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Mobile Devices
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Order Placement
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We use your information to perform our contract to provide you with products or services.
Partner Promotion
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We use this information to fulfil our promotions.
Surveys
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We use this information to understand your opinions and collect information relevant to our organization.
Sweepstakes or Contests
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We use this information to operate the sweepstakes. In some contexts we are also required by law to collect information about those that enter into our sweepstakes.
Website Interactions
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We use this information to understand how you interact with our website to better improve it, and to understand your preferences and interests in order to select offerings that you might find most useful. We also have a legitimate interest in detecting and preventing fraud.
Web Logs
We collect information, including your browser type, operating system, Internet Protocol (IP) address (a number that is automatically assigned to a computer when the Internet is used), domain name, click-activity, referring website, and/or a date/time stamp for visitors.
We use this information to monitor our networks and the visitors to our websites. Among other things, it helps us understand which of our products or services is the most popular.

Revisions to This Policy

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PaperlessTimes is really just a hobby site comprised of some of my favorite and most read conservative leaning sources.  The main idea is just aggregate RSS feeds centralized in one area so I can simply take a quick look at the latest articles and pop on over to the full article if wanted; saves a bit of time from going from site to site looking for something that might interest me.

I long ago lost any faith in what is commonly known as mainstream “news” recognizing that it’s not just how a story is framed, but also what is omitted in what passes for information these days.  There are many, many great authors and thinkers in conservative thought who have the freedom to focus not on narrative and instead on substance.

This is always a work in progress for my own use, but if you find it useful, that is awesome.  If there’s a feed you read that you would possibly like added, (always interested in expanding), have any complaints or suggestions, feel free to use the contact form .  There is a bit of marketing on this site which is more of a test run for developing stuff.  If anything catches your eye, buy away, for it does go to me.

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